Due to security nobody here will contact a Non-VIP, even a new VIP is suspicious as well who immediately asks for contact. Reason: one could be banned for cheat affiliation in this way. Therefore I suggest the following: first get VIP, second get trustworthy within community... then you can ask for contact.
He's helping you by telling you that you're wasting your time here trying to get players to play with you when you aren't even vip or known in this community....